“Clothes mean nothing until someone lives in them,” designer Marc Jacobs once said. Studies in cognitive psychology suggest that what we wear can shape not only how others perceive us but also how we perceive ourselves. Wardrobes are often treated as functional or fashionable, but they can also be deeply personal—carrying memory, identity, and intention. From inherited items to garments altered by hand, certain pieces become symbols of values we carry. Why do some clothes stay with us long after trends fade? This expert roundup explores what meaningful clothing says about our personal philosophies—and how style can reflect far more than appearance.

Editor’s Note: This article includes personal reflections on body image, trauma recovery, and emotional well-being through fashion. Reader discretion is advised for those sensitive to these topics.

Soffio Sweater Embodies Intentional Fashion Philosophy

A cotton sweater dyed using an experimental technique we now call Soffio. At the time, it was just a test: imperfect, uneven, and unbranded. But it captured something raw and essential: the balance between restraint and experimentation. I’ve worn it for years. It reminds me that fashion, at its best, isn’t about perfection or novelty; it’s about process, continuity, and choices you stand behind. My wardrobe is shaped by that idea: less trend, more intention.

Filippo Decotto, Marketing Manager, Ploumanac’h

Upcycled Denim Jacket Symbolizes Sustainable Style

The most meaningful item in my wardrobe is an old denim jacket I inherited from my mother. It’s worn, with a few patches and frays along the sleeves, but it holds a lot of memories. When I first started my journey into sustainability, I saw this jacket not as something outdated but as a symbol of lasting value. Rather than tossing it out or buying a new one, I gave it new life by adding some upcycled fabric from other denim scraps we use in our brand’s production. The jacket now tells a story of transformation and purpose.

This piece reflects my fashion philosophy perfectly: style doesn’t have to be disposable. Quality, sustainability, and personal meaning are what matter most. Since adopting this mindset, I’ve reduced my clothing purchases by around 34%, focusing on items that hold sentimental value or can be reused, rather than buying into fast fashion. This jacket, in its new form, is not just a piece of clothing; it’s a constant reminder of how fashion can be both meaningful and sustainable.

Soumya Kalluri, Founder, dwij, Dwij

Custom Cufflinks Transform Technology into Elegance

I have a pair of custom-made cufflinks that match a custom-made ring.

The beauty of these pieces? They were both handcrafted in a small shop in Florence, Italy, by Cristian Fenzi, using two original iPhone 1s.

He took the phones apart, melted down the metal, components, and chips, and transformed them into a striking set of cufflinks and a ring that I always carry with me.

What makes them even more special is the design. Both the ring and the cufflinks feature a gas mask motif in a steampunk style.

I tend to dress in a very classic and refined way, working in fashion, but these pieces add a lot of personality. 

When you pair a super-classy outfit with something so unexpected and distinctive, it makes the whole look more interesting and memorable.

Luca Fontani, Founder, Vilanera

Shapewear Redefines Masculine Confidence and Strength

The most meaningful items in my wardrobe aren’t what most people expect. They’re my men’s full-body and half-body Spanx. Yes — shapewear. Compression pieces that don’t just enhance how I look, but ground how I feel. These pieces represent something deeper: a quiet revolution in how I show up as a man. They remind me that strength doesn’t have to shout — sometimes it just needs to support.

These garments helped me redefine my relationship with my body. As someone who’s survived trauma and now coaches men toward healing, I’ve learned that feeling secure under your clothes can help you feel safe in your own skin. They smooth out insecurities, lift posture, and shift the energy I walk into a room with. I don’t wear them to hide — I wear them to honor myself.

This philosophy is echoed by my stylist and friend, Jeramiah A. Roberts of Fashion Mr., whose book “Wear Your Confidence” changed the game. He teaches that true style starts beneath the surface:

“Men’s Spanx aren’t about vanity — they’re about value. It’s about being polished, prepared, and powerful in a way that doesn’t depend on applause. You’re not dressing to impress — you’re dressing to express inner confidence.”

From sculpting tanks to full-body compression suits, each piece in my wardrobe tells the same story: I care about how I feel, not just how I look. They reflect my personal fashion philosophy — that confidence isn’t loud, it’s layered. It’s built with intention, and yes, sometimes reinforced with a little spandex.

“Confidence isn’t stitched into your blazer,” Jeramiah says. “It’s built from the inside out.”

That’s more than fashion. That’s freedom. And that’s the kind of energy I wear every day.

Robert Marshall, Men’s Confidence Advocate, Trauma Recovery Coach & Co-Founder, Roberts & Marshall Creative Media

Vintage Leather Jacket Reflects Timeless Quality

The most meaningful item in my wardrobe is a simple, yet elegant, vintage leather jacket I picked up during a trip to a small market in Los Angeles. It’s not just about the jacket itself, but the memories tied to it. I was on a mission to find something that felt both timeless and practical, something I could wear every day. When I found it, it instantly spoke to me, not just in terms of style, but in the craftsmanship. The leather is soft, aged beautifully, and the stitching is perfect. To me, it reflects how I approach both fashion and life: simple, sustainable, and enduring.

I believe in investing in pieces that will last, much like the ethos I carry at Bella All Natural. Just as we curate products that stand the test of time, I choose pieces in my wardrobe that reflect that same commitment to quality and authenticity. Fashion, to me, is about creating a personal connection with the items you wear, something that feels like a reflection of who you are, not just what’s trending. That jacket, with all its character, reminds me every day to invest in things that truly matter.

Daisy Cabral, Dynamic CEO, Bella All Natural

Market-Found Jacket Embodies Practical, Durable Style

The most meaningful item in my wardrobe is an old, well-worn leather jacket I picked up at a market in Newtown years ago. It’s not flashy or expensive, but it’s sturdy and comfortable, much like the gear I rely on every day at work. That jacket reminds me that style doesn’t have to be complicated or trendy to make a statement. It’s about durability, practicality, and feeling confident in what you wear.

I don’t chase fast fashion or flashy brands. I stick to pieces that can take a beating and still look good, just like the work I do running Pro Electrical. That jacket has a few scuffs and marks from all over, almost like a timeline of my life here. It reflects a straightforward, no-nonsense approach. Whether I’m fixing a fuse or heading out after work, I want my clothes to work as hard as I do.

Daniel Vasilevski, Director/Owner, Pro Electrical

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• What’s the most meaningful item in your wardrobe?
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